I got the sack last week

Well the title says it all, I got the sack last week. I have so much to think about and so much to say that I decided to start a blog to record my experiences, ask for help and let others know of any useful help I have had along the way.

First things first.
Suspension, Investigation meetings, Disciplinary hearings, Appeals, Dismissals.
Get some advice
There are lots of places you can get help. CAB`s, your union, Employment lawyers( very expensive) ACAS. You may also find that you are entitled to legal help under your home or vehicle insurance, its worth a try. Consumer Action Group and Moneysavingexpert forums are well worth a visit. Register with them and post a message, there are lots of people out there who will respond with great advice
There are probably a lot more out there, let me know of any you found useful as I`m still going through this and could use the help.
The more informed you are about your rights the more able you are to deal with the situation.
Don`t be afraid
I know I felt panic stricken, I couldn`t sleep and still have trouble doing so. I didn`t know why I was suspended for 6 weeks, the stress was horrendous. You will feel awful and manifest all kinds of physical and psychological behaviours that are just not you. This is normal.
Go and see your doctor and tell them whats happening and how you feel. I reached a point when everytime I got a letter from my employer I vomited, It would all go round and round in my head and i would throw up. I lost about a stone in weight( not totally a bad thing) and had pains in my chest.